Tuesday, July 24, 2012

More Weighty Issues

My baby is too thin.

This isn't what I was hoping to hear today, but the news wasn't surprising either. After all of my bellyaching over gaining weight during pregnancy and trying to fit into the magical 25-35 pound range, I've gained almost nothing over the past month. While I'm sure the whole pound-a-week in your third trimester is equivalent to the centimeter-per-hour dilation in labor thing (that is, complete bullshit your mileage may vary), I also know that this is when the baby is supposed to be putting on most of her weight. And according to today's growth scan, she's not measuring up.

The baby's head, arms, and legs are where they're supposed to be, but her tummy measurement is almost three weeks behind. She's tall and skinny. Perfect for shopping at a sample sale. Not so great if you're a fetus.

The good news is that everything else looks beautiful. When a baby in utero stops growing in proportion to herself, doctors look for high blood pressure in the mother (nope) and signs that the placenta is starting to deteriorate (none). The baby is energetic, and her practice breathing looks beautiful. But it would still probably be in this little one's best interest to get her out in the next few weeks.

Dr. K. was very quick to mention that the baby isn't in any danger. She didn't seem worried, but I could feel her curiosity-bordering-on-concern as she double-checked the sonographer's measurements.

"You're lean," she said. "It could just be her build."

Maybe.

She weighed nearly 5 lbs. four weeks ago. Today, she's 6 lbs. 1 oz.

As I left the hospital parking lot, I reflected on how skinny Westley looked when he was born. I wondered if maybe this is just the growth pattern my babies follow, and we just never knew with Westley because my prenatal care wasn't nearly as high-tech. (Of course there's no way to know now.) I also reflected on my long mental list of the natural induction methods.

Just last night Rob and I were laughing about people's odd inclination to ask expectant couples things like, "So...any idea when the baby'll come?"

The baby will come when she's good and ready, I always want to say.

I still trust that answer. I just hope she gets ready soon.

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7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Tall slender mother, tall slender baby.

Mia said...

Clearly you're having the supermodel of babies.

Sara said...

Hoping she comes soon and is healthy as can be. I think with more and more technology they always spot more potential problems when everything is usually okay in the end. I'll be interested to hear your natural induction methods if you choose to share. I'm not there yet, but wouldn't mind tucking back some ideas for if/when the time comes.

Allison the Meep said...

I'm sending some good fatty thoughts to your fetus.

Kidding! But I do hope everything is great. Both of mine were slender too, so I think some babies are just built that way. Julian and Audrey were totally slender babes. :)

Allison the Meep said...

Also, I just read my comment, and I really should not be commenting on any blogs after I have had a gin-based drink. Apologies for how extremely dumb I am.

Mama Smith said...

I'm sure that's just the way your baby is built- but I will still send 'hurry up baby' vibes your way!

Lauren Knight said...

I had this same problem with my last two pregnancies. They were all crazy because I wasn't gaining weight at all (despite eating a lot of healthy and not-so-healthy food). My last guy decided to stay in an extra week and was 7 lbs. Both "skinny" babies were completely normal and healthy. I tend to err on the side of bullshit.