Sunday, May 19, 2013

Fly Girl

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All my (diaper) bags are packed, I'm ready to go...

We've got new toys for Ivy and snacks for Mommy. There's extra footy pajamas and as many diapers as we have hours of travel time. Rescue Remedy, of course. Herbal all-purpose salve—why not?

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And a little girl who had a fabulous, two-nap day today, gearing up for her big adventure.

So Big!

My chickadee is ready to fly.

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Saturday, May 18, 2013

Shrieks on a Plane

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On Monday, Ivy and I leave for a six-day trip. We will visit my best friends in the world and lie on crawl all over the beach. I'm thrilled to be going, and also kind of terrified.

One thing I swore I'd never do when I had babies was travel with them. I had been on plenty of flights with parents and their little ones, and I'd noticed that even when the babies were perfect angels, their parents were vibrating with anxiety. The stress of flying with a baby seemed to outweigh any possible benefit of the trip.

And then I actually had babies, and my friends (who I try to see at least once a year) still lived far away. So travel with baby I shall.

The thing I'm most worried about is entertaining Ivy while we're in the air. We're flying when she would normally start her morning nap, so it's likely she'll sleep at least part of the time. But she may not, and I'm racking my brain for ways to keep her busy when crawling and cruising all over is not an option. Most of all, I'm trying to make peace—in advance—with the idea that I might be That Mother With the Shrieking Baby.

With a little of luck, my happy, social girl will continue to be her happy, social self at 35,000 feet. With a LOT of luck, our seat mate will be a relaxed-and-groovy grandma who misses her grandbabies and would love nothing more than to chat with a nine-month-old for six hours.

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Thursday, May 16, 2013

Nine Months

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As of Tuesday, Ivy is nine months old. Depending on how I look at her, she's either the biggest of little babies, or the tiniest big girl ever.

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(ED: That light blue T-shirt isn't Ivy's only top. She wears it often, though because it has Hello Kitty on it and ever since Westley learned about Hello Kitty through the preschool licensed-character-melting-pot, he's been crazy about Hello Kitty. So, yes, sometimes I dress Ivy to amuse her brother.)

She will happily eat leaves off the ground, but food off of her highchair tray? Thanks, but no thanks. Purees seem especially offensive. If I offer Ivy a spoonful of something, she scowls and turns away. Sometimes she makes a game out of it. She grabs the spoon out of my hand, flips it over and proceeds to teethe on the handle end. I keep hoping to find some food that will entice her enough to get the solid-food-eating ball rolling, but no real luck so far. Sweet potatoes and zucchini were all right for a while, but now Ivy would much prefer handfuls of food off my plate. Which she immediately throws on the floor. But moss from the lawn? Always delicious.

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I think some of the disinterest in solids has to do with how much this girl still breastfeeds. Sometimes I feel like we're back in those early days of never-ending nursing sessions. Except there are many more interruptions as Ivy pops off to flip over, look around, try to sit up in my lap...and then fuss because she wasn't really done with her meal.

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Her eyes are greenish in certain lights, but it looks like they'll probably settle on brown. Her hair is light, light brown. It will almost certainly be curly.

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For the most part, Ivy continues to be a happy little social butterfly. She comes with me to my physical therapy appointments, where she has the reception staff eating out of her hand. She waves hello and good-bye, claps, and reaches out to give hugs. I can't just hand her off to a friendly adult anymore, though. A switch flipped a couple days ago, and we're starting to see a little bit of stranger anxiety, even around people she knows well. Her tears don't last long, though.

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The only things that really upset her are being tired, getting her diaper changed, and the fact that Westley refuses to let her into his room.

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Ivy loves to talk. She can carry on a long conversation in babble, and she also says a few words already. Her first word was "baby." She says "Weh," for Westley and "Daddy," clear as a bell. "Yay" for yay. "Ee-vee," which I'm pretty sure is Ivy. And "Beee!" for big, as in How big is Ivy?...Sooooo big!

And she is so big.

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Except when she's tiny.

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Happy 3/4 birthday, chickadee.

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